After
reading The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens
by Sean Covey and The Young Traveler's Gift by
Andy Andrews, I have found nine areas where typical teens are
different from productive young adults. In these nine posts, I'll be
explaining them and asking you to decide where you are right now and
where you would like to be in the future.
Teenagers
look to themselves or their friends as the source of inspiration
while young adults are willing to look to a power higher than
themselves. Covey calls it “sharpen the saw” (206). Being a
young adult is hard work. Sharpening the saw is about refocusing,
renewing, and slowing down a little bit. It involves the body,
brain, heart, and soul (206). Now, this doesn't mean you waste all
your time and never do anything productive, because that's just being
a teenager. But it is important to take time to step away from work
and take a break. You must have balance in everything in your life.
Some people work out building a buff body, but never learn anything.
Some people have ripped minds, but never do anything for their body.
And some people ignore the spiritual matters. Balance is key.
Andrews'
second decision for succes is “I will seek wisdom” (50). Wisdom
implies knowledge higher than yourself and is a constant, lifetime
search. I started learning about the founding of America when I was
12 years old. At a young age, I was taught by great men of the past
as I read their words and studied their lives. I was taught the
principles of hard work, self-discipline, and the search for
knowledge. James Madison said, “Knowledge
will forever govern ignorance; and a people who mean to be their own
governors must arm themselves with the power which knowledge gives”
(brainyquote.com). Young
Adults are self-disciplined so they can seek wisdom and knowledge
without always having an adult at their back nagging them on. “I
can change the future by changing my actions today. I will
change
my actions today!” (50).
- What do you do to sharpen the saw? Are you seeking wisdom beyond your own?
Coming
up...Forgive and forget or forget to forgive?
Sources:
Andrews,
Andy. The Young Traveler's Gift. Nashville, Tenn.: Tommy Nelson,
2004. Print.
Covey,
Sean, and Inc OverDrive. The 7 Habits
of Highly Effective Teens. S.I.:
Touchstone, 2014. Print.

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